words of wisdom

THE MYSTERIES OF HUSBAND AND WIFE

Many believed that once they have a woman at home automatically means they are husband and also goes to a woman who sees herself in a man's house and believed that she is a wife. They are wrong. There is more to putting a woman in the house. 

Who is a HUSBAND? A husband is someone (a man) who is matured in age and character, who have fulfilled every necessary obligations regarding payment of bride price of the woman of his choice. It is necessary, and worthy of note that the primary rite which qualify a man to be called HUSBAND is the BRIDE PRICE the man paid during the traditional engagement. A man who has not obeyed this rite but have a woman with him with five children is not a husband. It is not children that makes you a husband, and not even a woman in your house. We shall go further to define who is a responsible husband.

A woman is called or regarded as a wife not until her bride price is paid by a man. If a mad man pays bride price of any given woman, the woman is as good as being a wife of a mad man. You are not a wife until a man pays your dowry. In the word of God Wife is to be found. Woman, do not allow any man to put you in the family way without paying your dowry. Such a man is a cheat.